Cutting Corners

… two C words

26 posts to keep me writing

When this quest to write 26 posts in alphabetical order began, I didn’t realize just how difficult it would be to “choose my words carefully.” As this weekend approaches, many in my life are celebrating a child who will commence with the rest of his/her life.


This is my commencement, 1985. My father was thrilled when I received my degree because he knew this meant I  (the baby of the family) was off the payroll. When I received my Master’s Degree 24 years later, the Hubster and Son-sters attended…they couldn’t believe that my “home office”, where I wrote endless papers and completed my Master’s portfolio was finally cleared for more important functions again, like eating dinner at the kitchen table.

I truly do not believe that college is for everyone. I do believe that education whether self-taught after completing high school, learning a trade, military service, civil service, or time spent at a luxury all-inclusive parent funded 4/5 year resort (some call this college) is essential to survival. I also believe that learning is life-long. This will sound cliché (another C word, if your counting), but I can honestly say, I think I learn something new every day.

A few years back I wrote an essay about Memorial Day and Education, I posted it last year. Some may call it “cheating” to repost, but I call it “cutting corners” in my quest for 26 posts. Also, fear not, I do not intend to bold every C word, but I will update the post for clarity.


Memorial Day & Education

Many of us have come to recognize Memorial Day as the unofficial start of summer. The weather is usually warm and the “great outdoors” beckons.  It is not that we don’t care or have truly forgotten the real meaning of this day, but the demands of life have a way of forcing us to think of the holiday as merely a day off from work or school to relax.


Memorial Day was listed as an official holiday in the District of Columbia in 1888 although many cities and towns across the United States try to lay claim to its beginnings. The actual name given for the remembrance was Decoration Day. The holiday became official chiefly because a significant portion of federal employees would have lost a day’s pay in order to participate in ceremonial events to honor those who died and with whom they fought in the Civil War.¹

My school holds an annual Memorial Day Assembly to remember and thank fallen heroes, those who served & serve, recognize the sacrifices made that enable the freedom to learn and celebrate the achievements of students.


Service members; both present and past, of students, faculty and staff are remembered on the Wall of Valor. This year marks 30 consecutive years for this assembly.

Seventy-three years ago, May, 1943, my father was a Sergeant in the United States Army Air Corp. He was stationed at Lowry Field No.1 in Denver, Colorado. In a letter to my mother, his “sweetheart” at the time, he wrote about his course work.


He was learning about the effects of “magnetism in electricity” in order to improve flight equipment powered by electricity for the war effort.  In his exquisite penmanship he also noted with regret that he wished he “had been a little more studious” when he was younger as he wouldn’t be struggling to learn the lessons he was being taught as a 23-year-old man.

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He spoke of the great opportunity he was given by being permitted to attend the classes as many of his fellow soldiers had already attended similar schools. My father did not have a high school diploma as he lived most of his young life in a Catholic orphanage. He considered these men much smarter than he and apparently he asked many questions. At least I know that my many inquiries today come to me through honest heredity.


As I read his letter, I think about the fact that cursive handwriting is no longer taught in school. I am saddened that this man’s great-children who are elementary age at present, will not be able to read the words he wrote during one of the most difficult challenges our country endured.

This Sergeant did not fight the battles of World War II with a weapon in his hand on the front lines, although I am certain he was trained. He learned in a classroom in order to build and repair safer, stronger and technologically advanced flight equipment.

Learning is life-long and one of the many great freedoms afforded to all in the United States of America. The opportunity of education is not to be taken lightly although difficult to convey its importance on some of the very young as my father had lamented seventy-three years ago.


New Mexico, 1945…Sweetheart and the Milkman

On this Memorial Day, as it became known after World War II, we continue to decorate in red, white and blue. We hold strong the high expectations of education for all and we remember and honor those who sacrificed in battle and studied in a classroom in order to provide for us the most precious freedoms we have today.

In loving memory of (the Milkman) my father, the Sergeant, and those who died in the service of our country. A special thank you to all United States military personnel present and past.


Happy Memorial Day!


¹credits to:  © 1994 – 2009 SUVCW & David Merchant   Updated 4 April 2009 and CRS Report for Congress, Federal Holidays: Evolution and Application, Updated February 8, 1999, Stephen W. Stathis, Specialist in American National Government Government Division




  1. Nana Diana says:

    Weren’t you a Cutie with a C?! Did your hubby smile when you got off the student ‘payroll’, too—when you got your masters, I mean.
    Love the old letters.
    Hope you have a wonderful Memorial Day Weekend. You can Celebrate (with a C)! xo Diana

  2. Katie Clooney says:

    You are doing a Commendable job on you Cwest. OK I blew it there. Nothing wrong with a little re-posting every once in awhile. I’m a pro. Hope you have a great week!

  3. Kelly L McKenzie says:

    I’m with Katie! Nothing wrong with a little re-posting every once in awhile. I Consider it Commendable, in fact. And may I say that this Canadian learned a heck of a lot here today. Nice to learn the background of Memorial Day.
    Off to my daughter’s Commencement Ceremonies in a day or two. She’s a gem. Her hand writing? Not so much …

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